Why is IFS for Trauma Treatment so Effective?
Internal Family Systems has become increasingly popular in recent years, as more people begin to appreciate the powerful healing that can be experienced with this modality. People who have been through trauma now often use IFS for trauma, as this method can effectively treat the wounds that other therapies are unable to.
In this blog, we explore the most important aspects of Internal Family Systems, and let you know why we believe IFS trauma therapy is so effective.
If you would like to know more about how we use Internal Family Systems for trauma treatment at Yatra Centre in Thailand, contact us today on +66 96 916 3287.
What is Internal Family Systems?
Internal Family Systems is a talk therapy that believes that instead of us possessing one psyche, instead we are composed of a multitude of different “parts”. These parts are distinct from one another, possessing their own perspectives, emotions and roles.
Often, these parts become frozen in time when we experience trauma, so rather than developing as adults, they remain trapped as children. IFS helps us to work with these parts. Richard Schwartz, founder of IFS, tells us: “our parts carry burdens from traumatic experiences, and it’s through compassionate dialogue with them that we can begin to heal.”
This healing is not an overnight process, as it can take time for your parts to trust you and your therapist to do this work. But it is so worthwhile, as the IFS process can be truly transformational when working with trauma, addiction and other conditions.
Types of Parts in IFS
In Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, the parts are categorized into three main types: Exiles, Managers, and Firefighters.
Exiles
Exiles are parts that carry the burden of past traumas, fears, and painful emotions. They are often young, vulnerable parts that have been pushed away or suppressed because their intense feelings are too overwhelming for the person to handle.
These parts are exiled to protect the person from experiencing the full impact of their trauma. However, when they are isolated, they can lead to feelings of shame, worthlessness, and vulnerability. When we use IFS therapy for trauma, exiled parts are brought back into the fold, allowing them to be heard, understood, and healed.
Managers
Managers are proactive parts that work to protect the person from feeling the pain of the exiles. They do this by controlling and managing daily life, often through perfectionism, hypervigilance, or avoidance strategies. Managers strive to keep the person functioning and prevent situations that might trigger the exiled parts.
They are often critical and demanding, aiming to maintain a sense of control and safety. While their intentions are protective, their methods can sometimes be restrictive or detrimental to the person’s overall well-being.
Firefighters
Firefighters are reactive parts that activate when the exiles’ pain breaks through the managers’ defenses. Their primary role is to quickly distract from or numb the intense emotions associated with the exiled parts.
Firefighters use various strategies such as substance use, binge eating, self-harm, or other compulsive behaviors to extinguish the emotional fires that arise. Their methods are often extreme and can be harmful, but they act to protect the person from experiencing pain.
The Self
In addition to these parts, IFS posits the existence of the “Self,” which is the core of a person’s identity. The Self is characterized by qualities such as calmness, compassion, curiosity, and confidence.
It is the Self that facilitates healing by listening to, understanding, and harmonizing the different parts. The goal of IFS therapy is to help people access their Self and use its strength to lead and integrate their various parts, fostering a sense of inner harmony and healing from trauma.
The Effectiveness of IFS for Trauma
Internal Family Systems is now used regularly at trauma treatment centres like Yatra Centre. It’s easy to see why, as many people are experiencing profound trauma healing from working with an IFS therapist. But why is IFS for trauma so effective?
Addresses Root Causes
IFS doesn’t just focus on alleviating symptoms. It also helps us to understand and heal the root causes of trauma. By working directly with the parts that hold traumatic memories (Exiles) and the parts that protect the person from these memories (Managers and Firefighters), IFS can provide you with deep healing from trauma.
Emotional Regulation
Using Internal Family Systems we can begin to enter into dialogues with our parts, finding out what they want in certain situations, and giving them what they want. This creates harmony and trust within.
This leads to a reduction in overwhelming emotions and can help you manage your reactions to triggering situations more effectively.
Self-Compassion
People who have been through trauma sometimes lose the ability to feel compassion for themselves. They can blame themselves for what happened, or develop an underlying belief that they deserved their trauma.
By helping you get in touch with the Self, Internal Family Systems can help you unlock a wellspring of compassion within yourself, which you can begin to access at will.
Creates Inner Harmony
Trauma can cause chaos within our inner environments. By working with our parts, IFS trauma therapy helps create peace within us. This makes our day to day lives more pleasant, and also allows us to be more effective at achieving our goals in life.
Yatra Centre Uses IFS for Trauma
Trauma is not easy to address effectively. Some trauma sufferers try to tackle it for years without feeling like they have made much progress. And while trauma treatment does take time, some modalities are more effective than others.
At Yatra Centre, we believe the Internal Family Systems is one of the more impactful methods of treating trauma. We find that those who engage in IFS and other potent trauma treatment methods at our centre are able to reduce their trauma symptoms, meaning they can be in the world, be free and have compassion for themselves to a much greater degree than in the past.
For more information on how we treat trauma at Yatra, or to arrange a tour of our facility, contact us today on +66 96 916 3287.
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